​Written by Debbie Brecher in 2019

Editor's Note: ​Debbie died in 2020 after the Pink Ribbon Run. She submitted this article in 2019. The Beyond Pink TEAM grieves the loss of another amazing woman to breast cancer and appreciates the continued support of Jody and Debbie’s families.
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My family has participated in the Pink Ribbon Run since 2014 when my mom, Jody, was diagnosed with breast cancer. We walked in her name until this year. I would never have dreamed that this year would present one of the toughest things I've ever endured in the same way. There are three things that I know for certain about breast cancer. Early detection is critical, a great medical team behind you is key, and a team of warriors who stand beside you essential. One of those warrior teams that stepped up the day of my diagnosis to help was the Beyond Pink Team (BPT).

There were so many ways the BPT offers assistance to breast cancer patients and their families. Emotionally, physically, and financially. Until you're one of them you don't realize how much this cancer consumes you. This team was reaching out to me on day one to provide help navigating cancer. I didn't realize how impactful this group was until I became the patient. It is simply astounding to learn that one in eight women will experience breast cancer in his or her lifetime. Two of those eight will find that they have the most aggressive form of breast cancer. I am one of two and I can tell you it is not a position I would wish for anyone. By the grace of God, early detection, and a great doctor gave me a fighting chance to win the race. You know there is a finish line. You're following the map your medical team gives you, but you have no idea if your body is taking you in the right direction. At the time there were nights I just didn't think I was going to be able to take much more. The finish line looked a long way away back in March. I'm thrilled to report my finish line is in sight on October 1 which is so fitting as October starts breast cancer awareness month. I reached the finish line as my warriors are making sure of it with them by my side. You are my warriors!

Initially, I really didn't want to share the fact that I had breast cancer. It is an overwhelming diagnosis. The last thing you want to do is put your burden on others. But they gave me strength and confidence that I could do this. They made me realize how important it is to share and support one another. I think we are all compassionate in our own ways. However, compassion in cancer gives me an entirely new perspective.